The blog is about a lady who is 26, her 28 year old husband was just killed in paragliding accident. They have a four year old little girl. In the blog you can tell without a doubt that this woman is so madly in love with her husband, and now her world is completely crushed. I literally cried so hard when I read about how see still waits for his truck to pull into the driveway, and how their daughter had her first dance recital and he was not there to watch. But as she was trying to deal with her grief and pain by writing, she also helped me, by telling how in love she was you could see how sad she was, you could also tell how highly she though of her husband, how she loved to let him do the things that he loved.
I was mad at Joey yesterday for going on the desert with a friend, as I read this I could tell that I was being selfish, and that I needed to let him have fun. I also had a great urge to tell him how highly I thought of him, I know he knows I love him but does he know that the kisses on the forehead still give me butterflies. That he is the only person that can make me laugh when I want to cry or how he makes me feel so comfortable and so loved, well he does now. Reading this blog made me realize that I need to not get so mad over the dumb stuff and enjoy everything else a little more. It made me wonder what if that had happened to me... I know that I would be completely crushed, I know that Joey is the only one for me, that he is the one that I am supposed to spend for ever with. The one that I can be my true self around. So Thank you Joey for putting up with my stubborn-ness, and for always being there for me, for all the great, and few not so great times that have made me fall in love with you many times over. I LOVE YOU :)
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| This is Joey roping last summer, he is an amazing roper, and it is something that he loves to do. |
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| Just us , being us :) |
This is so sweet Riyah! You made me cry :( I am so glad that you chose Joey, we love you! I am so glad you get to be Aunty Riyah and you get to be my sister, yay!
ReplyDeleteK seriously such a cute post! I read one like that and she said something like how she used to get mad when he'd leave his hair all over the bathroom sink when he'd shave and now that he's dead she misses cleaning up that hair! :( It really makes ya think about all the stuff you get annoyed about. I have to stop myself sometimes and say k is this worth getting pissed about. I think that attitude alone is what has strengthened me and russ! We've learned to live with the annoyances cause if we didn't have each other that'd be so much harder! I just wanna tell you how much I love you guys. I'm so thankful we've had the opportunity to all hang together. I'm also grateful we'll be able to see each other start on the crazy journey of marriage;) Good year huh? miss ya bunches girly
ReplyDeleteThanks mal! I am way excited too.. I love you guys and the kids :) I am so glad I found him, and that he puts up with me.
ReplyDeleteAsh,Thanks.. and I know, I would rather have Joey and his annoying habits, then not have him at all. I am glad I got to know you too and I hope we can hang out more :)
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